Valentine’s Day is only a couple of days away and love is in the air here at Sexlog. If you don’t have anything special planned yet, fear not, because we’ve got your back! Here are some great (and very sexy) date ideas that are easy to plan last minute.

1. Cook Together

Check out some of the stellar recipes on and plan a meal together. Then hit your local grocery store to pick up the ingredients. Don’t forget to grab some candles and wine to really set the mood. Cooking together can be a lot of fun, plus it’s a great bonding experience. Not to mention that good food and good sex go hand in hand! Check out these aphrodisiacs and see if you can incorporate them into your meal. And don’t forget about dessert!

2. Massage Each Other

Get some massage oil or even some sensual massage candles, then dim the lights and put on some soft relaxing music. Candles are great to set the mood for this date too, and you’re sure to get extra points for scattering rose petals on the bed. Then take turns giving each other sensual full body massages. Really take your time on each other, and a happy ending is surely in store for both of you!

Pro Tip: Most craft stores (any plenty of online retailers) sell artificial rose petals that can be reused for romantic at home dates year after year.

3. Take Some Naughty Photos

Take turns taking sexy photos (or even videos) of each other. If you have access to a tripod you can even take advantage of your camera (or even your smartphone) timer and take some really steamy photos together. Put on (and take off) your sexiest lingerie and set the scene with fun props. Some prop ideas include masquerade masks, sex toys, handcuffs and blindfolds. Still need some inspiration? Head over to and check out all of the sensual images being shared. Then once you have some great images, be sure login and share some of your own!

4. Get Some New Toys

Go on a trip to your local sex toy shop and pick out some exciting new toys to try together. Explore rows of edible underwear, vibrating cock rings, bejeweled butt plugs and plenty of other exciting accessories. You’re sure to find something that will spice things up in the bedroom that night, and for many nights to come!

5. Take a Bath Together

Okay, so this one requires a large enough tub. If you have that covered, then get some essential oils, bath salts, or a bath bomb (Lush makes some amazing ones that are worth the splurge!) and draw a sensual smelling and skin soothing bath. Candles, yet again, are great for the ambiance here as well. Set the mood with some romantic music, grab some champagne and strawberries and take turns lathering each other up!

6. Have Sex Somewhere Different

This one is simple, and maybe it’s not exactly a “date” per se, but it’s a great idea to include this in your Valentine’s Day plans. Sex in bed is great, it’s comfortable, it’s convenient, but it’s also pretty boring. Whether there is a room in your home that you’ve never used, or you’re feeling really adventurous and want to head outdoors, have sex somewhere brand new.

7. Role-Play

Again, it’s all about variety and mixing things up! Need some sexy suggestions? Check out these scintillating scenarios and give them a whirl. The stranger scenario is one of our favorites! Be sure to dress the part and include appropriate props. Have a great time and some incredible sex!

Valentine’s Day doesn’t have to be about overpriced dinners and expensive jewelry. It should be about truly reconnecting with the one you love. Hopefully these sexy date ideas will help you do just that.

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